Some considerations

I appreciate what you are saying, and I'm sure it might be nice for a Mum to have the kids back (Guild Wars2 Gold)... for whatever reason.

However, I prefer not to be seen as somebody who somehow could not operate on their own (I did fairly well for 25 years, if I may so myself).

Also, what will my siblings think? They might think I'm taking advantage of Mum. As a matter of fact, I suggested to her to gradually reduce some of her stuff. There are hundreds of books, mostly of my late Dad's. They should be either given to somebody who enjoys them, or at least recycled. There is no way Mum will even touch a fraction of them.

Of course, quite a few of her belongings have sentimental value, but all the "Reader's digest's" and old novels from the 50's one can easily get from the library?

But again: I do not want my siblings to think I want to dictate Mum how to lead her life. At the same time (Guild Wars2 Gold): I am here now, and willing to help her make life a bit easier. One day she won't be here anymore, and all her stuff would have to be divided in a few weeks. Better to do it now, while she can have a say over what to do with all the stuff.

Oh: and since we live on a 3rd. floor apartment, and the kids above keep trampling around (hello: where are the parents?) makes me wonder whether I could stay here for too long. The liveless garden is another deterrent, as I wish to grow veggies again, have a cat, etc...

Again: too many things to consider, which is why I won't make a decision on anything right now...