I like the wording between ultimatum and repercussion.

That's the point I have come to, but asking some one to change is nuts (Guild Wars2 Gold). I married her out of love and respect. We got hitched and it was like she just figured that she could drop all responsibilty. She was 100% emotional support, a little financial, and some physical. Now, pretty much nothing. In a way that's change. Although I think that's more just letting the true colors come out after landing her man. Sneaky? IDK.

I want to sit her down and tell her what I expect, but before I do that I want some good advice on what is "reasonable" and what's too f'ing high of an expectation for anyone.

I'll take the advice to sit her down and explain to her my expectations (Guild Wars2 Gold), but I already know the answer. Maybe not though, if she knows I am serious about throwing in the towel.